Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Dine

I really am very tired of the attitude! Yesterday I turned in my keys at school I am done. During the brief meeting that I sat through and the lunch afterward, my clueless principal (nice guy, totally doesn't get it) inferred no less than 5 or 6 times that I now have no purpose, no meaning, no higher calling in my life. When did being a stay at home mom lose it's validity? What is it about devoting my time to the service of my family that riobs my life of meaning? Why will I be bored? I was a stay at home mom for eight years before teaching two years and I can't recall ever being without something to do... Lonely? Yes! Tired? Yes! Bored? No way! I could try to excuse his remarks as being those of a man ignorant in the ways of family as he is divorced and has lived alone for years. I know that he probably had very little to do with the raising of his children, but there are many others that hold the same views that know better. At what point did feminism get such a hold on even the conservative Christian base in our country that stay at home mothers became the people with the lowest status? Is it not God-pleasing to spend your efforts training up your children, caring and providing for them and leading them in the path that they should go? Take it from this unemployed girl, I have plenty to do, my life still has significant meaning and way less stress, and no I won't be wishing I had all the stress of teaching back come next August. Maybe I will get a part time teaching job to aid with tuition and funding college funds, but knowing now the traps that are out there, you will not find me so eager to sell so much of my time away from my family ever again.
Now since I have a firm hold on this soapbox, I had better go switch the laundry...

2 comments:

  1. "Knowing now the traps that are out there, you will not find me so eager to sell so much of my time away from my family ever again."

    I feel the same way, and it's really hard to explain to anyone who hasn't been in my place before. So many people, including family, just can't understand why I never want to go back to work again...

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  2. I keep getting people who ask me what I do, and when they hear that I quit my teaching job they want to know what I will be doing now that I have nothing to do...
    Worse yet, the kind people who are obsessively trying to find me a new job. I'm good thanks... I am considering a part time job in my specialty. I am not looking to work at any school other than the one my kids go to because of tuition issues. I'm pretty sure it is more economically sound for me to be at home and cutting expenses than for me to live at school neglecting my family and bringing in the coveted second income. Sigh...

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